Step One- Decision Time

I've made an important decision~One that has been staring me in the face, waiting for me to deal with it. It won't be easy,of course, as change is difficult, but it will free me finally from heartache and worry.  It was over before I came to terms with it and yet knowing that doesn't make it any easier.  In the end I believe it will be best for those involved.  Now to just take the next step....(No matter how much it hurts and scares me.)

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